德康 发表于 2025-7-31 21:13

你是一个世故圆滑、懂人情世故的人吗？

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好吃的不是拉面 发表于 2025-7-31 21:19

不是，我只是尽量不得罪别人。

尼莫的表哥 发表于 2025-7-31 23:24

我想我不是，我太年轻，还是个孩子

馥郁的山庄 发表于 2025-8-1 08:51

是过了，现在不是了

朱顶红 发表于 2025-8-1 09:06

很懂人情世故，很会投其所好，就看对方值不值当我这么做

斯文孙_ 发表于 2025-8-1 09:17

好
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