风扬 发表于 2025-7-31 18:48

能长期稳定下去的关系，不是靠很强烈的爱

<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712"><!--    付费贴-->    <div class="preview_article ">            <!---->    <p>正如心理学大师卡尔&middot;罗杰斯提出&ldquo;无条件积极关注&rdquo;，爱一个人，就该接纳他的真实自我，而非附加条件。</p><p>爱不是试图将对方放进自己精心绘制的框里，而是松开手，带着敬意与珍重，凝视他本来的样子。</p><p>爱的最高境界，是深情凝望一个人时，心里默念：你本来的样子，就值得我爱。</p><p>真正的爱，是如你所是，而非如我所愿。</p><p class="empty_paragraph">&nbsp;</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20250731184800front2_0_472441_Fl2tD5UQWDWqTeiTZRtkOW9Jj_Al.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOmjjuaJrA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/45/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="640" height="844" data-qf-origin="forum/20250731184800front2_0_472441_Fl2tD5UQWDWqTeiTZRtkOW9Jj_Al.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOmjjuaJrA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/45/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph">&nbsp;</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20250731184800front2_0_472441_Fs4ER039zC2vzgY2lTlbp7uxm_zI.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOmjjuaJrA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/45/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="640" height="833" data-qf-origin="forum/20250731184800front2_0_472441_Fs4ER039zC2vzgY2lTlbp7uxm_zI.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOmjjuaJrA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/45/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph">&nbsp;</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20250731184800front2_0_472441_FozXm2-7qZx2Dv2_G5dpV3K9FsCx.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOmjjuaJrA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/45/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="640" height="844" data-qf-origin="forum/20250731184800front2_0_472441_FozXm2-7qZx2Dv2_G5dpV3K9FsCx.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOmjjuaJrA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/45/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p>&nbsp;</p><p class="empty_paragraph">&nbsp;</p><p class="empty_paragraph">&nbsp;</p><p class="empty_paragraph">&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp;</p>    <!----></div>            

游泳的鱼001 发表于 2025-7-31 20:18

结婚将近二十个年头才体会到这几句话的意思

hudiegu 发表于 2025-7-31 20:34

古人云“爱而不藏，自取其亡“，现代人说”秀恩爱,死的快”

风扬 发表于 2025-7-31 20:41

游泳的鱼001 发表于 2025-7-31 20:18
结婚将近二十个年头才体会到这几句话的意思

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风扬 发表于 2025-7-31 20:41

hudiegu 发表于 2025-7-31 20:34
古人云“爱而不藏，自取其亡“，现代人说”秀恩爱,死的快”

一个道理

┊丄締┊嘙 发表于 2025-7-31 20:51

不能试图去改变别人，能改变的只有自己

好吃的不是拉面 发表于 2025-7-31 20:59

好！！！！！！！！！！！
虽然我不懂。
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